More Party Favors

From: eriktown*3e.org

Subject: Party Concept

Date: May 27, 2004 5:08:22 PM CDT

To: [email protected]

Mr. Sterling,

I read your Microsoft speech in your blog, and had a few

thoughts on your problem. As a professional geek who also,

peculiarly, really enjoys parties, I was greatly intrigued

by the whole situation. I go to quite a lot of the things,

so my range of experience is pretty broad in this

regard, and I enjoy hosting them, so I also put

a decent amount of thought

into what goes into the whole thing.

For the last several years I've been involved with a group

called the Merchants of Deva, who gather together once

a year to throw a room party

at a regional SF/Fantasy con known as Norwescon.

By "room party" I don't mean twenty people stuffed

in a hotel room with an icechest full of beer;

I mean we rent a suite of rooms at the con hotel and

put together a sort of miniature nightclub,

complete with a dance floor, a chill-out room, a

variety of edible refreshments and a well-stocked

bar with colorful mixed drinks.

The Merchants as a whole have been around for

over a decade; I'm a relative newcomer, but I've always

been impressed by how very

professional their methods are and

how smoothly everything comes across.

We get hundreds of people through this party,

mostly congoers but also a smattering of

gatecrashing jock types who heard that there

is free booze and spooky death chicks who might,

like, make out with each other or

something.

All of this requires a lot of organization to manage

in a way that the hotel and the Seattle-Tacoma

Police Department find acceptable.

In addition to the DJ, bartender, decor people

and catering people, we also have a staff of five

to ten men and women, mostly ex-military, who act as

roving security through the party. We mark them

clearly with badges and black T-shirts with "Obey Me"

written in neon-green on the back. And then

there are a few more in plainclothes moving

through the party and keeping

an eye out for situations.

Every person coming through the door gets

their ID checked and, if over 21, gets their

hand stamped so they can

drink at the bar.

Some might call it a heavy-handed approach,

but it actually works extremely well.

People look at the very visible security and

seem to feel safer; almost every year we get

one or two young women who flee to our

party from one of the others, because some

creep is following them around

or harrassing them, and they know that our party is safe.

Yet people still relax, drink, talk and have a

good time; we have a whole staff

working to make sure they do,

and we accomplish a lot without the guests

ever knowing about it.

"All right," you say, "That's great, but

I don't think I could make that

work for me. I mean, I talked about

organizing a group of party people to

help me out with this, but then I'd be

obligated to help out with *their*

parties."

The trick here is the same as the one

Linus Torvalds pulled. It's the

same as the one you used with your

Microsoft speech. Appeal to the

hackerly desire to solve problems –

and the hackerly desire to garner

respect and admiration.

Make it so that the party is its own reward.

Just as people will sink

thousands of man-hours into Open Source

projects for the sake of

recognition, reputation and admiration,

so too will people help Bruce

Sterling throw his incredibly hip flash-party.

People – from your most

trusted friends to nearly complete strangers –

will gladly work themselves to the bone

if you can convince them that what they're doing is

worthwhile.

They will work even harder if it will increase

their personal mystique and

cool-factor. Give the party, or at least

your support organization, a

name. Create a little tribe; something to give

your volunteers to bond

over; help them feel like they're creating something.

If they can look out on that party and feel like

they helped pull off something really

cool, all they'll really need in return is

a little recognition. This is

the same principle that Open Source runs off of,

and there is no shortage

of talented contributors to OS software projects.

The trick is making your project attractive to potential volunteers.

This approach has worked *very* well for the Merchants –

who work hard just for the sake of throwing a fantastic party.

Of course, YMMV. I thought you might find aspects

of this approach interesting and worthwhile, and I hope

you found it so. Good luck; I hope

I manage to make it to one of these parties some day.

Regards,

Bjorn Townsend