IPod Jacking: A True Love Story

Derek Wolfish, a 17-year-old senior, met his girlfriend when he "jacked" into her iPod in a darkened cinema.

IPod jacking is when two strangers swap headphone jacks to sample each others' music. It's one way to discover new music, and can be used to break the ice. IPod jacking was a lot easier when iPods were rarer, and the white earbuds signified membership of an exclusive club.

Derek (not his real name) is from La Quinta, California, near Palm Springs. He met his girlfriend, Hailey Schmidt, at an outside mall called "The River," which has a movie theater.

Here's Derek's story, as told via a recent IM-terview (which I've lightly edited to make it easier to read):

DEREK: so i was here at "the river" with a couple friends
i had my ipod on me, like i always do, (it's as normal as taking my wallet)

and i saw a girl walk into the movie theatre with her friends..... i notice the famous white earbuds and knew she had an ipod.

i convinced my friends to move down a couple rows closer to the screen

so when i was walking down i plugged in my earbuds and put on a cute song real quick i thought she might like..... i sat 2 seats to her side
i waited till she glanced over at me( i was kidna lucky she ever did)

so i looked back at her and put on a small smile and said hi
she seemed friendly
so i asked what she was listening to while taking out her headphone and plugging in mine
she was a little confused at first but then laughed when she realized what i was doing

ME: cheeky

haha yeah.... i was kinda nervous but i pulled it off
we only had a couple minutes to introduce introduce each other and talk about music before the movie started
but that's pretty much it.... i got her screenname
before we left

ME: what was the song you chose for her to listen to?

hopeless love by daphne loves derby

ME: and what was she listening to?

dark blue by jack's mannequin

ME: so you approved of each other's taste in music?

she liked what i had, i wasn't too fond of jack's mannequin, but its grown on me since

ME: how long you been going out?

3 months
a little over

ME: you have any other ipod jacking stories?

just one other... i "kinda" knew the girl though
she was an old friend's little sister
i just used it to "break the ice"... it seemed more interesting than saying "hey, are you josh's little sister?"

ME: so – you're a serial jacker?

haha

ME: what kind of music do u like? name a couple of bands.

a thorn for every heart, boys night out, the academy is, armor for sleep, bloc party, brand new, dashboard confessional, the early november, emery, the faint, halifax, hellogoodbye, mae, matchbook romance, motion city soundtrack, northstar, panic! at the disco, park, the plain white t's, the postal service, silverstein
typical 'emo' stuff
that was a bit more than a couple, but thats just off the top of my head

ME: so it's a good way to approach girls?

most definitely